Friday, October 23, 2009

Why my blog is my best friend?

· Can bare my soul here – I cannot think of any place where I can be as uninhibited and candid as here. I have laid threadbare my darkest desires and deepest secrets and may open up some more in time to come. Let it be my fantasies, my loneliness or my desires, all have found their due place here.

· One of the few things I look forward to eagerly – Not many things in life are looked forward to and only those are eagerly sought which you enjoy and cherish. I can safely vouch for this URL to be a fierce companion which I seek most of the days, in the midst of eternal ennui engulfing my existence

· Have known some of the most interesting and fascinating people and their stories here – It helps to know and learn that there are so many fascinating folks with their own exciting tales to share. And also how similar some of us really are, we share the same beliefs, same thoughts and same insecurities

· The only one which guarantees companionship and only asks my time in return – an outlet when in need can be your best friend indeed. In times good and bad, only place which will always listen to me and provide a shoulder to cry upon, or to let out a cry of jubilation and also to hide from my fears, is the one you are right now reading. Its true that blogging demands time commitment, but it also makes you discover some interesting facets of yourself when you are in deepest contemplations on what to share next.

· Is patient and never minds my idiosyncranacies – I have been irregular and also illogical while pouring out here, and sometimes while reading the past pages, the inherent contradictions and paradoxes leave me baffled. But my best friend has never complained and always listened with both ears open

15 comments:

  1. arent these some of the reasons all of us write here..free

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  2. Pretty much echoed most of my sentiments! Happy blogging :)

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  3. Great post Nikki!
    You voiced the very reason each one of us are addicted to blogging so beautifully.

    Cheers!!

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  4. Another reason is that its always at your disposal!

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  5. yeahh blogging is an amazing thing! you are anonymous so for you is even better. you write whatever you want and no one knows you! well said!

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  6. I so agree with you. Blogging is my best buddy as well. :)

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  7. Abt the first point. Much as we like to believe, blogging isnt as anonymous to bare open those deepest secrets (anyway secrets are meant to be just that, secrets!). A few slips here and there of our daily life and someone there makes us out. Its a small world after all

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  8. i so so so so so agreeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
    my God that is one hell of a post and I loved it word for word :D

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  9. The best part of blogging is-it's a dialog but one-sided...u get to say all u want..bt in d end u r not so alone...and dere is a communication.. like this!!!

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  10. :) i agree with you..you speak your mind here..and thats good

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  11. even though i haven't been commenting all that much lately i have made sure i don't miss any of your posts..don't know how i missed this one..well, until now :)
    i love blogging for the reasons you mentioned, and may be there are more.. and I am sure others would agree.. but i don't think i have been quite as candid as you.. there is still a part of me that feels insecure baring everything, feels like people will judge me if i share all of my darkest secrets, even though i am safely tucked behind the anonymity wall.. i guess i have to really push myself to bare it all here to get the full benefit of blogging.. reading from your post, it doesn't look like you have held back much - which i think is very good, cuz blogging can be quite therapeutic..don't you agree?

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  12. We're grateful for your blog too! It's a most interesting read!

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