Monday, November 2, 2009

A short trip and back

My trip to Jammu and Vaishno Devi went smoothly and as per schedule. I had a good time meeting some of the old faces and regaling in their company. This time around there were more queries coming as to when I plan to tie the knot and settle down. I am appalled at how easily the same people who are suffering in their own marriages are insisting and are very keen to see me married off. Going by some of their debates, marriage seems an accomplishment much like climbing a difficult peak, the earlier conquered greater the valor

At times I am amazed at how different world is in some of the smaller Indian towns, with their own naivety and innocence. I had once overheard a remark that India lives in five centuries, a fact endorsed after visiting Jammu from Gurgaon for gap between both cities would be atleast a few decades if not more.

City and its folks notwithstanding, I had fun climbing up and down Vaishno Devi though my legs are still sore and am limping today in office. I had kept both legs in warm salted water twice yesterday but the effect is waning off now. While climbing Vaishno Devi it is remarkable the kind of energy one feels while approaching the main caves. I guess it is not without reason that the shrine enjoys a large following.

I had visited Vaishno Devi same time last year too, when I had received a job offer from Dubai. The day I returned back the offer was withdrawn leaving me infuriated and deeply agonized. But seeing the magnitude of global crisis, I now feel I was saved from an impending disaster; hence was all the more keen to pay obeisance this year

Besides I also had a wedding to attend, which was scheduled on the evening I climbed Vaishno Devi. Imagine trekking a full day up and down and then attending a wedding same evening! However I could not have skipped this one, as the bride here was my ex-classmate, a close family friend, and daughter of current state DGP. An amusing part of the ceremony here was the Kashmiri songs and music played. Those who have heard Kashmiri will agree it is the most nasal lingo around and after hearing Kashmiri songs Himesh Reshamiyya will sound like a sweet cuckoo.

Visiting other places I always yearn for coming back home but after few days at home, long for a good time out. I guess it is the same with many of us, when it is hot we want it cold, but when it starts getting colder we try to get warm. But what would life be if all was same with no variation around

17 comments:

  1. hey sounds like a nice fun trip..relax now mate :)

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  2. good friends like you to suffer when they suffer.. hence they asking you to get married. and did u ever see that girl u wrote about in your confessions after school??

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  3. you seem like making quite a regular trips, jai mata di :)

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  4. ooo..seems like u r having a lotta fun..so many trips..haan!!!n well about the people of jammu living a decade ago...yea I kinda agree...may be we owe it to the conservative society we live in...n about the nasal lingo..it rocks man!!!ever heard two kashmiris talking....it's entertaining...n sometimes infuriating!!

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  5. Jai Mata Di!!
    :-)

    Guess you had quite a tiring trip!!

    Take rest..

    Never had an opportunity to visit that part of the country..but your post does paint a beautiful picture of what to expect!!

    Cheers,
    D

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  6. Absolutely, the grass is always greener on the other side!

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  7. Arre waah yaar! You seem to be having a lotta fun!! Happy for you. :)

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  8. This was nostalgia for me. Reminded me of our Jammu stay and Vaishno Devi trip.

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  9. Nice post :) especially I loved this " I am appalled at how easily the same people who are suffering in their own marriages are insisting and are very keen to see me married off. " ..i mean you bet...weirdly insane...

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  10. Vaishno Devi has resoundingly horrible food. Wonder what people survive on, there!

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  11. Ha ha @ ur observation abt wedding et..al :P
    People hv their own list with age fixed for marriage, kids and then kids marriage and so on ;)

    That must hv been a gr8 trip with darshan, wedding et..al :)

    ROFL @ Himeshbhai sounding like a cuckoo ;)

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  12. I've always wanted to go to Vaishno Devi temple.Like it is said,you can go only when the Goddess signals you to come.So I guess I'm waiting for my turn.Its one temple I'm yearning to pay a visit.

    It was lovely to read an account of your trip :)

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  13. Oh, ve bn there. Once is enough I suppose though.

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  14. Sounds like an amazing trip

    Kate x

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  15. I was reading some of your old posts, funny I must say :) had a good read..!

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  16. Oh! I loveeeee Vaishno Devi and Jammu both :) :) :)

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